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Beginners:
If you are new to dream work, the odds are that,
with some practice, one of these methods will be blindingly more clear to you than the others and you'll mostly use that. After a while, some of the others will become
clearer and you will gradually develop a reportoire of methods.
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Here are 20 (and more)
different techniques for working with your dreams.
You need a toolbox
approach because no
single method of analysis works with every dream. Sometimes you interpret your
dream, sometimes you search for the meaning, sometimes you simply play with
the dream in a what-if kind of way.
These notes will give you powerful
ideas that will let you play with your dreams.
I tried to put this list in order of importance but it didn't
really work. They are all important. Having said that, "Completing the
dream protectively" is the technique that I favor most and "Name the
dream" is one that many people find very easy, so they are first on the
list. Dream on! If the words
"analysis" and "interpretation" put you off, think
of this as dream-play.
You'll notice that some of the techniques have a link that says
"More." That expands on the subject if you are interested.
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Click below to read about these
techniques:
- Complete
the dream protectively
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Name the dream
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Free Association
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Gestalt
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Emotion
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You or other?
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Look for the pun or the phrase or the word
- Talk to the aggressor
- Connect it to previous dreams
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Go back to the picture
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Tell the dream over and over and over
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Fly over the dream, fly "under" the dream
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Add the dreams together
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Bring in a new character
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Find the myth, fairy tale, spiritual parallel
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Write paint, act, sing it. Turn it into a poem or a short story
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Tell the dream to someone else
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Day residues
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Next day events
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Locate it in your body
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Contextualizing image
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Look for the wish in the dream
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Look for a conflict in the dream wishes
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Recurring dreams
- Try
writing with your "other" hand
- Wait for the next
dream
Complete the dream protectively
A dream is rarely a complete, closed story. Finish it: Escape from the
monster, solve the problem, rescue the child …
Using the faculties that are available to you as a waking person, go back
into the dream and find new ways to end the dream.
What would you do if this happened while you were awake?
Safety is important. Can you make certain that you
and people you care about are safe at the end of the dream?
If you are being chased, should you try to hide, can you find something to
help defend you, can you find a door you'd never noticed before, can you bring
another person into the dream. ... This is just like finishing a movie
plot. Return
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Name the dream
Give the dream a title. This often gets to the nub of the dream. Sometimes, like free association, the
title that actually pops out is not what you would have imagined.
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Free Association
What comes to mind when you think of particular aspects of the dream?
The crucial thing here is to focus on the first thing that comes to mind, no
matter how irrelevant or embarrassing it might seem (you may want to practice
this in private first).
Typically done in conversation e.g. "Tell me about the tree in the
garden". But you can just write down all the parts of the dream
"Tree", "Snake", "Stranger" etc and then free
associate to each one. Return
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Gestalt
You are every part of the dream. The people, the animals, the vegetation etc.
In a dream you find yourself leaning on a table. Try being the table. The emphasis is on being.
Not what does the table think but you are the table,
what do you have to say? What is it like for you, the table, to have this person
leaning on you? Return
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Emotion
Find a corresponding emotion in your life.
You graduated 10 years ago but you still have a dream about taking a test. That
might have no relevance to you today but the emotion and concerns may be
relevant to something in your life -- are you being put to a test somewhere?
(And don't forget to complete the dream -- declare yourself graduated).
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Emotional Vocabulary
You or other?
Does the dream focus on people who exist in your waking life. If so, consider
it to be more about them and your relationship to them. If not, consider it to
be about your inner life. If you have a dream about someone, consider (only
consider) telling them the dream. Return
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Look for the pun or the phrase or the word
The language of the dream can take on a life of its own (a man dreams that
the electricity goes out in his building but he uses the words "I've got no
power"). Typically you don't notice the language until it is spoken.
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Talk to the aggressor
In a dream in which you are threatened, first make sure that you have done "Complete the dream
protectively".
Open a conversation with the aggressor. Are they really as mindless as
they at first seem (bent on causing you death or destruction?). Often the conversation reduces the threat and will
change the dream. If not, continue with the first technique of protecting yourself.
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Connect it to previous dreams
Dream are like bananas: They come in bunches. In other words, this
dream probably connects with earlier dreams and later dreams will connect with
this one. How did this theme occur in previous dreams? Is the theme
changing? For example, a dog bites me in one dream, licks me in the next and
then talks to me in a third dream. If you put the three together, you have far
more to work with than any one dream on its own! Return
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Go back to the picture
Typically if we go back to the dream itself, there are a very few incidents
perhaps even just one visualization, from which the whole story followed
naturally. But go back and find the image. Then you will see what followed from
it. Return
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Tell the dream over and over and over
The dream cannot stay the same. You will notice new things and complete
descriptions that will make the dream easier to understand.
There is an art to discerning natural extensions of the dreams vs imposed
ones. Return
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Fly over the dream, fly "under" the dream
Take a look at the dream from the outside. See yourself/ place yourself in the
dream. What would you think if that dream happened to someone else?
You experience the dream from the inside, see the dream from the outside.
What is your reaction to the person in the dream. What advice to you have for
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Add the dreams together
For instance (my own hypothesis) some themes are split. So that one dream
flies over the problem where another dream depicts you stuck in the mud. If you
put the two together ("merge" them by having the person fly over and talk
to the person who is stuck) you'll see the stuckness differently.
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Bring in a new character
Needs a meditative state. Return
Find the myth, fairy tale, spiritual parallel
This starts off intellectually then you go back into the dream with a new
consciousness.
You dream that you are in your backyard and a snake comes out of a tree and
bites you. Go back and read Genesis. There's a monster and you have to kill it
but you are afraid: go read Theseus and the Minotaur.
The hard part for most people is getting the idea that a dream about their
backyard is parallel to a dream about the garden of Eden.
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Write, paint, act, sing it. Turn it into a poem or a short
story
You can do this as a form of artistic expression.
You can also do it to capture the wonder and mystery of the dream. The art
work will take on a life of its own. Go back to the dream afterwards.
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Tell the dream to someone else
Make sure they understand the importance of "If
it were my dream".
Tell them the dream. Tell it at least twice. Let the other person ask you
questions until they think they understand the dream.
Predict what the next dream will be
After a few dreams you will notice that there is a theme
running through some of your dreams. A dog bites you in one dream and licks you
in the next. See if you can predict how the theme will play out in the next
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Day residues
What happened recently (the day before) that is reminiscent of the dream?
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Next day events
Look out for things today that resonate/harmonize/remind you of the dream. If
there was a special color in the dream, it's likely that you will notice that
color today and that there will be some significance to when or where you see
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Locate it in your body
Not obvious at first but take e.g. differing parts of the dream and locate
them in your body. Now let your body do the talking. Walk around, breath into
these parts etc. Return
Contextualizing image
Is there a single image that dominates the dream. You sometimes have the
sense that all the words are just scaffolding and there is a single piece of the
dream (usually an image but can be anything at all) that is the
centerpiece.
In that case, first try forget everything else and focus on the dominating
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Look for the wish in the dream
Can you see a wish that is expressed in the dream. E.g. The dream is that
Billy C. and I are having coffee together. The reality is that I haven't seen him for
20 years and I'd like to see him again. His mother was very harsh on him
and that makes me think about ways in which my mother was very harsh with me.
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Look for a conflict in the dream
wishes
Often there are several wishes that are in conflict: E.g. The dream is that
an ex-girl friend is writing me a long letter. The reality is that I'd like to
hear from her (especially to have her apologize for a long list of things
she "did" to me) AND I've moved on and would not want her back in my
life anyway AND , when I think about the dream, I notice that my grudges against
her are exaggerated. Return
Recurring dreams
People will often say that they have been having a certain dream or theme for
years -- and usually it is something they don't like. Recurring dreams and themes
will tend to change when you examine them. It
is common to believe that you have been having an identical dream, or nightmare,
for years. In fact this is rarely precisely true. When you examine the dreams,
you'll notice important variations that will give you hints as to how to work
with the dream. Return
Try writing with your
"other" hand
Rather than write the dream down with your usual hand (i.e. the right hand
for most of us), use the other hand.
It connects to your brain differently and you will find yourself describing
the dream in a different way. Return
Wait for the next dream
Dreams are like buses, there'll always be another one.
And the next one will usually explain what you didn't understand about this
dream. Return
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